The room is the deal.
O'Reilly understood that business is done between people before it is ever done between balance sheets. A famous raconteur with effortless warmth, he made relationships his first asset and his most durable one, opening doors from Pittsburgh boardrooms to Dublin.
The charm was not decoration. It was working capital, and he compounded it for a lifetime.
Before the pitch, win the person. Invest in the relationship while you still have nothing to ask for.